*Strategies*
- Flirting.
- "chest thrust" -- standing tall
- "Copulatory" gaze
- eyes
- movement (nervousness)
- Baboon love
- Wooing
- Thalia (feet) ; Alex (looks away then back)
- "return gaze"
- approached -- groomed
- At the bar.
- Stages:
- Attention getting phase (chair, attract attention)
- Pitching / roll shoulders (body movements)
- Swagger.
- Curls, giggle, blush, signal arrival.
- Sway hips, arch backs, heels (noise)
- Stages:
- Keeping time.
- Rhythm / gazing
- Synchronizing
- Wooing messages.
- Slowly
- example: spide
- male must go slowly while approaching or female devours him.
- Aggressive
- consequence
- repelled
- If incorrect response, courtship fails.
- The dinner date.
- Offerings (gifts) before lovemaking.
- Males - hunters, providers - when providing females with food.
- Odor Lures
- "Odor print"
- Apocrine glands -> active at puberty
- Eccrine glands -> odorless liquid
- Exaltolide (musk)
- Pleasant memories.
- Love Maps.
- Arouses you sexually in love (What about that individual.)
- Looks count Looks & money.
- Love at first sight.
- Animals -> breeding
- Humans -> infatuation at a glance.
- Infatuation fades.
- Two to three years.
- Harem Building
- Mologyny -> one bride
- Polygyny -> one or more wives
- Man is Monogamous
- Polygymy (option)
- "pair-bonding" trademark of human animal
- Unfaithfully yours
- 106K reader: 54% (women) one affair Out of 7239 men - 72% 2 or more years have committed adultery.
- Sexual Variety
- Monogamy and adultery
- Parting
- why marry, why divorce.
- Marrying -> primarily to breed
- The four-year itch
- "Americans marry to enhance their inner, largely secret selves."
- Divorce is for the young.
- More children -> less likely to divorce
- Remain together to help raise their children.